I need advice. Today it's become hard to meet a life partner at work or school. If a woman takes my innocent flirtation or advance the wrong way, metoo takes my job or scholarship.
Dating sites have become the norm today. I met someone, we had great conversation via text, phone, and video chat.
As a German citizen, she can visit me without a visa due to the Visa Waiver Program. We needed to know if this was real, what we felt. So she visited me. We got to see what it was like to live together. She saw me not on a date, but through life. We got lower GI upset from a meal, yet despite diarrhea our attraction to each other didn't diminish, it only grew.
Do you know how many years I've spent alone? Any idea how many men have mistreated her, debased her, and used her?
So, a little more than 2 weeks before she had to go (she had 90-days) we couldn't imagine life without each other and we got married.
Now what do we do? Was it impulsive? Yes. Spur of the moment? Of course. But neither her nor I regret it. We just don't know what to do now?
Any help or advice would be appreciated before we hit the 90-day mark.
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